So, you've decided to dip your toes (and maybe more) into the world of sex parties, but you're not quite sure where to start? Whether you're a total newbie or just looking to up your game, here's everything you need to know to navigate your first sex party like a pro.
Do Your Research
Not all sex parties are the same. Some cater to specific kinks or orientations, and age requirements can vary. If you`re planning on attending solo it`s worth noting that some events don't allow single attendees. Before you RSVP to anything, do a little research. Check out reviews, talk to people who have been to a party before, look on the event`s website and get a feel for what you're signing up for.
Dress to Impress
Think of a play party as an opportunity to showcase your hottest, most confident self. Dress in something that makes you feel sexy and comfortable. Whether you opt for sultry lingerie, a daring costume or cocktail wear, let your outfit reflect your inner desires. Some parties have dress codes and may have a specific theme, so be sure to check ahead of time. Often the dress code policy can be found on the event`s website.
Set Your Boundaries
Know what you're comfortable with and what you're not. Communicate your boundaries clearly to your partner, if you're attending together, or to other partygoers if you`re going solo. You can attend play parties purely just to socialise, enjoy the atmosphere and not engage in sexual activity. Often people attend events to hang out and meet like minded sex-positive individuals. Don`t feel pressure to participate.
Initiating Play
Communication is paramount at play events. If you feel a connection with someone, express your interest in a respectful manner. Observe the atmosphere and body language of those around you. Are people mingling and chatting, or are they already engaged in play? Pay attention to the dynamics and energy of the room before making any moves. If both of you are interested, suggest moving to a designated play area. Be ready to accept any response graciously. If someone declines, thank them for their honesty and continue enjoying the party.
Party Etiquette
Just because you're at a sex party it doesn't mean you have free reign to touch or engage with anyone and everyone. Always ask for consent and respect others' privacy and boundaries. If people are in mid play you shouldn`t expect to join in, always ask first. Most events will have a party etiquette section on their website - we recommend you familiarise yourself with the guidelines before attending an event.
Event Essentials
While condoms are often available at events, you might want to bring your own, especially if you have a preference for a particular brand or size. You may want to bring lube, breath mints, and anything else you might need for a night of fun.
Remember to play safe, respect boundaries, and above all, have fun!